Debounce stream management ack requests

So that they don't send after every stanza goes out but only when idle.

packages/stream-management/index.js

@@ -48,6 +48,7 @@ export default function streamManagement({
 }) {
   let timeoutTimeout = null;
   let requestAckTimeout = null;
+  let requestAckDebounce = null;
 
   const sm = new EventEmitter();
   Object.assign(sm, {
@@ -61,6 +62,7 @@ export default function streamManagement({
     max: null,
     timeout: 60_000,
     requestAckInterval: 30_000,
+    requestAckDebounce: 100,
   });
 
   async function sendAck() {
@@ -72,6 +74,7 @@ export default function streamManagement({
   entity.on("disconnect", () => {
     clearTimeout(timeoutTimeout);
     clearTimeout(requestAckTimeout);
+    clearTimeout(requestAckDebounce);
     sm.enabled = false;
   });
 
@@ -199,7 +202,8 @@ export default function streamManagement({
 
     sm.outbound_q.push({ stanza, stamp: datetime() });
     // Debounce requests so we send only one after a big run of stanza together
-    queueMicrotask(requestAck);
+    clearTimeout(requestAckDebounce);
+    setTimeout(requestAck, sm.requestAckDebounce);
 
     return next();
   });