feat: Support passing writer options through the datafusion integration

[peasee]

Description

• Adds a VortexWriterOptionsFactory to allow someone using Vortex via the DataFusion VortexFormat implementation to be able to pass down custom writer options (e.g. for determining layout structure, etc). I've created a factory without a Handle, so the values can be copied into a VortexWriterOptions whilst finding an active handle at the time the write occurs.
• Made some opinionated changes to VortexFormat and VortexFormatFactory. Instead of ::new_with_options(), prefers a more fleshed out builder pattern with ::new().with_options().with_writer_options_factory(). This is a breaking change (anyone using ::new_with_options must now use ::new().with_options()).

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 79.00000% with 21 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 84.79%. Comparing base (ffd8429) to head (d41b220).
⚠️ Report is 79 commits behind head on develop.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
vortex-file/src/writer.rs	75.86%	14 Missing ⚠️
vortex-datafusion/src/persistent/format.rs	76.66%	7 Missing ⚠️

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[AdamGS]

LGTM, just needs fixing the clippy error and we can merge it

[peasee]

Looks like this was made redundant by #5111