fix validate_share panic after on_set_new_prev_hash in custom-work mode

[rx18-eng]

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Closes #2155.

• new JobStore::deactivate_job method that moves active_job into past_jobs
• ExtendedChannel::on_set_new_prev_hash false arm now calls deactivate_job() before mark_past_jobs_as_stale(), so the old active goes through past then stale and late shares for it return Stale instead of panicking
• StandardChannel::on_set_new_prev_hash reordered so job_id_to_target.clear() only runs after activate_future_job(...) returns true, so the error path can't corrupt state
• both expect("job target must exist") sites in validate_share (extended.rs:675, standard.rs:597) replaced with ok_or(ShareValidationError::InvalidJobId)?

Two new tests

• test_set_new_prev_hash_without_future_jobs_marks_active_as_stale in extended.rs reproduces the panic from the issue and asserts Err(Stale) after the fix
• test_set_new_prev_hash_without_future_jobs_preserves_state in standard.rs confirms state survives the error and the next share validates without panic

Both tests fail with the original panic on unpatched code; full crate suite passes (74/74) after the fix.

[rx18-eng]

@plebhash would appreciate a review from you !

[rx18-eng]

I fixed the failing semver check !

[rx18-eng]

@plebhash shall i modify anything on this pr ?

[plebhash]

@rx18-eng you re-requested my review while not only ignoring the main suggestion, but also resolving it.

all that in less than a minute after I left my comments.

honestly I would prefer that you took the time to read and understand what the suggestions mean, instead of blindly clicking buttons on Github UI

with this current workflow, you're just closing your eyes and doing whatever you can to rush your PR getting merged, despite correctness or sanity of the contribution.

that's not a good way to make FOSS contributions.

[rx18-eng]

@plebhash you're right, I rushed. The first suggestion rendered as an empty code block in my view, so I read it as a no-op and clicked through the other two. I didn't go back to your "in other words: remove L561-L562" reply until after I'd already pushed and re-requested review. That's on me, I should have read every thread end to end first. I sincerely apologize for this !

[rx18-eng]

Going back through it now, the point is clear: with the top-level clear at L561-L562 still in place, the arm-internal clears from suggestions 2 and 3 don't actually defend against the early-return on TemplateIdNotFound, because
job_id_to_target is already empty before activate_future_job even runs.

[plebhash]

it seems you started your branch before #2151 had been merged, so please rebase against main and fix CI

also please squash all commits into one