fix(cookbook): recognize runtime --user installs by replaying user-site .pth hooks

[devpedrobarbosa]

Summary

Follow-up to #4694. The Real-ESRGAN build now succeeds, but the dependency was still shown as not installed in Cookbook → Dependencies, and a browser hard refresh never fixed it — only a full container restart did.

Root cause: the local optional-dep probe in list_packages decides "installed" by importing the package in-process. Cookbook installs optional deps with pip install --user, so the package lands in user-site along with setuptools' distutils-precedence.pth. On Python 3.12+ distutils is gone from the stdlib and is only restored by that .pth. When the dep is installed into an already-running server, user-site was never processed by site; the recovery used sys.path.append(user_site), which makes modules importable but does not execute user-site .pth files. So import basicsr (a realesrgan dep) → import distutils raised ModuleNotFoundError: No module named 'distutils', the probe caught it as ImportError, and realesrgan read as not-installed until a process restart.

Fix: use site.addsitedir(user_site) instead of sys.path.append(user_site) so user-site .pth hooks (incl. the setuptools distutils shim) are replayed when a package is installed into a running process.

Target branch

• This PR targets dev, not main.

Linked Issue

Fixes #4810

Type of Change

• Bug fix (non-breaking — fixes a confirmed issue)
• New feature (non-breaking — adds new behaviour)
• Breaking change (changes or removes existing behaviour)
• Refactor / cleanup (behaviour unchanged)
• Documentation only
• CI / tooling / configuration

Checklist

• I searched open issues and open PRs — this is not a duplicate.
• This PR targets dev
• My changes are limited to the scope described above — no unrelated refactors or whitespace changes mixed in.
• I actually ran the app (docker compose up) and verified the change works end-to-end. Type-checks and unit tests are not enough.

How to Test

On the python:3.14 image (docker compose up -d --build):

1. Reproduce (before this PR): with the server already running, install realesrgan from Cookbook → Dependencies. It builds/installs (importlib.metadata.version("realesrgan") == "0.3.0"), but the panel still shows it not installed, and a hard refresh doesn't help. Confirmed the in-process probe path fails:

   docker compose exec -u odysseus odysseus python -s -c \
     'import sys,site; sys.path.append(site.getusersitepackages()); import realesrgan'
   # ModuleNotFoundError: No module named 'distutils'

2. With this PR: the same probe path uses site.addsitedir(...) and resolves:

   docker compose exec -u odysseus odysseus python -s -c \
     'import sys,site; site.addsitedir(site.getusersitepackages()); import realesrgan; print("ok")'
   # ok

3. Verify recognition: reload the Dependencies panel — realesrgan shows installed without a restart. Confirmed via the exact local-probe path:

   docker compose exec -u odysseus odysseus python -c \
     'from src.optional_deps import prepare_optional_dependency_import as p; \
      import importlib, importlib.metadata as m; p("realesrgan"); \
      importlib.import_module("realesrgan"); print(m.version("realesrgan"))'
   # 0.3.0

4. Confirm the .pth is user-site only: distutils-precedence.pth exists in /app/.local/lib/python3.14/site-packages/ but not in the main site-packages — which is why a plain sys.path.append left distutils unavailable.

Visual / UI changes — REQUIRED if you touched anything that renders

N/A — no UI/rendering changes. Touches only routes/shell_routes.py (one line in the list_packages user-site prologue, plus an explanatory comment).