Bump OCI Go SDK to v65.110.0 and modernize runtime hooks

[veera-adithya-d]

Summary

This patch release updates OSOK to github.com/oracle/oci-go-sdk/v65 v65.110.0 and refreshes the generated API, CRD, docs, validator, and vendor surfaces that depend on the SDK.

It also modernizes service-manager runtime clients by moving resource-specific behavior onto bounded generatedruntime hooks for identity/read handling, mutation shaping, status projection, async work-request tracking, and delete confirmation. The hook adoption work preserves existing handwritten behavior while reducing custom client rewrites.

Go SDK bump

• Bumps OCI Go SDK from v65.61.1 to v65.110.0.
• Refreshes go.mod, go.sum, vendor/, generated API types, CRDs, RBAC, samples, docs, and validator registries.
• Updates generated expectations for SDK model and lifecycle changes, including the supported OSOK API surface.

Runtime client maintenance

• Adds and applies bounded runtime-hook seams for:
  • identity/read resolution
  • pre-create/bind guards
  • mutation body shaping and drift handling
  • status/lifecycle projection
  • generated async work-request handling
  • delete confirmation and follow-up behavior
• Migrates multiple runtime clients onto generatedruntime hooks, including core networking, load balancer resources, queue, redis, dataflow, AI Language, AI Speech TranscriptionJob, NoSQL Table, SecurityList, and other selected resources.
• Refreshes runtime-hook adoption documentation and leaves only the broader credential-backed psql/dbsystem runtime as the remaining manual outlier.

Fixes and patches

• Fixes reconciliation behavior for explicit empty values and empty OCI readback values.
• Restores VCN tag/security-attribute clear convergence.
• Fixes subnet upgrade reconciliation.
• Preserves Container Engine cluster and node pool update intent.
• Improves Queue capability detail convergence and async/delete fallback handling.
• Hardens Data Flow application delete semantics.
• Fixes SecurityList and NoSQL Table delete precheck behavior.
• Updates Container Instance health handling for the new SDK shape.
• Validates PSQL DbSystem upgrade behavior.
• Adds/aligns AI Speech TranscriptionJob runtime, formal, and lifecycle behavior.

[HaoyL666]

LGTM!