Add arm64 linux runner configurations

[danlapid]

This PR enables linux-arm64 runners for both every PR and every release.
We will be able to (and should) disable the internal runners finally.
This PR is missing one crucial step, merging the npm.yml and npm-types.yml workflows into the release workflow. This is split to a separate PR after we see this PR is working as expected and publishing a working linux-arm64 binary.

After both this PR and the upcoming PR is merged I have a plan to release on every merge to master thus reducing on-call load. We will add a bot that creates a daily/weekly PR to update compat-date.

[fhanau]

LGTM, surprisingly clean! There will be some cleanup potential here (and more importantly a better developer experience) once we can add an arm64 Windows runner, likely this quarter based on GitHub's roadmap.
I highly recommend to decommission the internal arm64 runner when merging this PR, certainly before cutting another release (I don't want to find out what happens when both the internal and external jobs try to push the same release binary).

[danlapid]

LGTM, surprisingly clean! There will be some cleanup potential here (and more importantly a better developer experience) once we can add an arm64 Windows runner, likely this quarter based on GitHub's roadmap.

I highly recommend to decommission the internal arm64 runner when merging this PR, certainly before cutting another release (I don't want to find out what happens when both the internal and external jobs try to push the same release binary).

My plan was to merge this Monday, disable the internal runner and immediately cut a release
Then I'll monitor to see everything working as expected or revert.