IGNITE-23736 Sql. Provide ability to catch start/finish events for query

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https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/IGNITE-23736

Benchmark results (SelectBenchmark.sqlGet, fsync=off):

Note: the benchmark was executed with event logging disabled, i.e. the only difference is in event generation and calling the eventLog.log method.

branch	clusterSize	Mode	Cnt	Score	Error	Units
main	1	avgt	20	9.115	± 0.286	us/op
ignite--23736	1	avgt	20	10.220	± 0.234	us/op

UPDATE

Results after #5004
(the difference became within the margin of error (from launch to launch it can change in one direction or another))

branch	clusterSize	Mode	Cnt	Score	Error	Units
main	1	avgt	20	8.681	± 0.278	us/op
ignite--23736	1	avgt	20	8.944	± 0.254	us/op

With event logging enabled (logSink), but only event serialization, without writing to file, i.e.

logger.log(Level.DEBUG, serializer.serialize(event));

The result is:

branch	clusterSize	Mode	Cnt	Score	Error	Units
ignite--23736	1	avgt	20	12.693	± 0.257	us/op