[Trilinos] Update to version XX

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Description

At some point we need to update Trilinos again. This issue documents what other issues or PR's are related to it and are relevant for 4C:

• Get Intrepid2: increase max orders for basis, cubature trilinos/Trilinos#13505, which increases the order of quadrature rules in Intrepid2.
• Get MueLu: Fix for phase 2b trilinos/Trilinos#13578, which resolves a bug in the Kokkos based aggregation in MueLu.
• Get MueLu: Fix boundary detection for non-kokkos distance laplacian dropping trilinos/Trilinos#13608, which resolves a bug in the distance Laplacian dropping for the non-Kokkos based aggregation in MueLu.
• Get Amesos2: Add Epetra noncontigous GID option trilinos/Trilinos#13696, which enables on-node reindexing of non-contigous GIDs of Epetra style operators for solvers like Umfpack and KLU2 in Amesos2.
• Get MueLu: Material dropping trilinos/Trilinos#13662, which enables material aware coarsening for problems with highly anisotropic and heterogeneous materials