feat!: re-work messaging parts and sharding

[weboko]

Description

Due to root message related types (i.e IDecodedMessage) we incur some inefficiency and lack of needed properties.

Proposed Solution / Feature Design

We need to do couple of things to hide complexity of types and make them more consumer firendly:

• avoid specifying IDecodedMessage over and over;
• make meta setter hidden and part of LightPush API to be more compatible with Messaging API;
• ensure types of decoders are used;
• establish idecodedmessage type;

Notes

• Resolves feat: improve messaging types and sharding #2356
• Related to feat: introduce createDecoder and createEncoder on IWaku #2352

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Checklist

• Code changes are covered by unit tests.
• Code changes are covered by e2e tests, if applicable.
• Dogfooding has been performed, if feasible.
• A test version has been published, if required.
• All CI checks pass successfully.

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size-limit report 📦

Path	Size	Loading time (3g)	Running time (snapdragon)	Total time
Waku node	62.06 KB (+0.12% 🔺)	1.3 s (+0.12% 🔺)	6.3 s (-16.7% 🔽)	7.5 s
Waku Simple Light Node	114.82 KB (-0.01% 🔽)	2.3 s (-0.01% 🔽)	8.9 s (-25.46% 🔽)	11.2 s
ECIES encryption	23.01 KB (+0.04% 🔺)	461 ms (+0.04% 🔺)	2.8 s (-38.62% 🔽)	3.2 s
Symmetric encryption	22.44 KB (-0.03% 🔽)	449 ms (-0.03% 🔽)	4.2 s (-5.27% 🔽)	4.7 s
DNS discovery	50.83 KB (0%)	1.1 s (0%)	7.5 s (-2.28% 🔽)	8.6 s
Peer Exchange discovery	51.38 KB (0%)	1.1 s (0%)	5.4 s (+1.46% 🔺)	6.4 s
Local Peer Cache Discovery	44.7 KB (0%)	894 ms (0%)	5.5 s (-5.61% 🔽)	6.4 s
Privacy preserving protocols	52.98 KB (+0.08% 🔺)	1.1 s (+0.08% 🔺)	6.8 s (+30.75% 🔺)	7.8 s
Waku Filter	54.86 KB (-0.11% 🔽)	1.1 s (-0.11% 🔽)	6.8 s (-5.27% 🔽)	7.9 s
Waku LightPush	52.29 KB (0%)	1.1 s (0%)	5.3 s (-55.89% 🔽)	6.4 s
History retrieval protocols	52.61 KB (0%)	1.1 s (0%)	8.8 s (+75.69% 🔺)	9.9 s
Deterministic Message Hashing	7.33 KB (0%)	147 ms (0%)	2.6 s (+71.9% 🔺)	2.7 s

[weboko]

Closed in favor of #2399