GH-48181: [C++] Use FetchContent for bundled Protobuf

[raulcd]

Rationale for this change

As a follow up of requiring a minimum CMake version >= 3.25 we discussed moving our dependencies from ExternalProject to FetchContent. This can simplify our third party dependency management. Moving Protobuf is the next step before moving gRPC.

What changes are included in this PR?

The general change is moving from ExternalProject to FetchContent.

It also add some required integration due to other dependencies, like gRPC, using ExternalProject. We not only have to build but also install in order for those other dependencies to find Protobuf. This causes some timing issues between config, build, install that requires us to create a custom target to depend on so the other dependencies find Protobuf.

Are these changes tested?

Yes, the changes are tested locally and on CI.

Are there any user-facing changes?

No

• GitHub Issue: [C++] Use FetchContent for bundled Protobuf #48181

[raulcd]

@github-actions crossbow submit -g cpp

[github-actions]

Revision: b4901bf

Submitted crossbow builds: ursacomputing/crossbow @ actions-92d482b371

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example-cpp-tutorial
test-build-cpp-fuzz
test-conda-cpp
test-conda-cpp-valgrind
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test-ubuntu-24.04-cpp-bundled-offline
test-ubuntu-24.04-cpp-gcc-13-bundled
test-ubuntu-24.04-cpp-gcc-14
test-ubuntu-24.04-cpp-minimal-with-formats
test-ubuntu-24.04-cpp-thread-sanitizer

[raulcd]

@github-actions crossbow submit -g r

[github-actions]

Revision: b4901bf

Submitted crossbow builds: ursacomputing/crossbow @ actions-3018e6ef2f

Task	Status
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r-recheck-most
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test-r-depsource-bundled
test-r-depsource-system
test-r-dev-duckdb
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test-r-rstudio-r-base-4.1-focal
test-r-rstudio-r-base-4.2-focal
test-r-ubuntu-22.04
test-r-versions

[raulcd]

@github-actions crossbow submit -g cpp -g r

[github-actions]

Revision: 7919c19

Submitted crossbow builds: ursacomputing/crossbow @ actions-f0723051de

Task	Status
example-cpp-minimal-build-static
example-cpp-minimal-build-static-system-dependency
example-cpp-tutorial
r-binary-packages
r-recheck-most
test-build-cpp-fuzz
test-conda-cpp
test-conda-cpp-valgrind
test-cuda-cpp-ubuntu-22.04-cuda-11.7.1
test-debian-12-cpp-amd64
test-debian-12-cpp-i386
test-fedora-42-cpp
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test-r-depsource-system
test-r-dev-duckdb
test-r-devdocs
test-r-extra-packages
test-r-gcc-11
test-r-gcc-12
test-r-install-local
test-r-install-local-minsizerel
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test-r-linux-rchk
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test-r-versions
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test-ubuntu-22.04-cpp-20
test-ubuntu-22.04-cpp-bundled
test-ubuntu-22.04-cpp-emscripten
test-ubuntu-22.04-cpp-no-threading
test-ubuntu-24.04-cpp
test-ubuntu-24.04-cpp-bundled-offline
test-ubuntu-24.04-cpp-gcc-13-bundled
test-ubuntu-24.04-cpp-gcc-14
test-ubuntu-24.04-cpp-minimal-with-formats
test-ubuntu-24.04-cpp-thread-sanitizer

[kou]

+1

[conbench-apache-arrow]

After merging your PR, Conbench analyzed the 4 benchmarking runs that have been run so far on merge-commit a17e247.

There were no benchmark performance regressions. 🎉

The full Conbench report has more details. It also includes information about 1 possible false positive for unstable benchmarks that are known to sometimes produce them.