Minify chances of crashing with new action queue

This does not really apply to bluewing-cpp-server as it's a single-threaded server. However, it is a significant edit.

The main thread now queues things for the lacewing event pump to processs, if event pump is not being ticked in main thread. Only unhosting is a blocking action that freezes the main thread until action is processed; everything else is queued and processed later.
This is now build 38 as MMF2Exts would have it (specifically, as SortaCore/MMF2Exts@d603e29 would have it).

A few improvements will still happen to bluewing-cpp-server before build 38 is released here.

Author: SortaCore

Lacewing/Lacewing.h

@@ -1694,13 +1694,11 @@ struct writelock {
 #endif
 
 
-
-
 struct relayclientinternal;
 struct relayclient
 {
 public:
-	const static int buildnum = 101;
+	const static int buildnum = 104;
 
 	void * internaltag = nullptr, *tag = nullptr;
 
@@ -1924,7 +1922,7 @@ struct codepointsallowlist {
 struct relayserverinternal;
 struct relayserver
 {
-	static const int buildnum = 34;
+	static const int buildnum = 38;
 
 	void * internaltag, * tag = nullptr;
 
@@ -2029,7 +2027,6 @@ struct relayserver
 	void channel_addclient(std::shared_ptr<relayserver::channel> channel, std::shared_ptr<relayserver::client> client);
 	void channel_removeclient(std::shared_ptr<relayserver::channel> channel, std::shared_ptr<relayserver::client> client);
 
-
 	struct client
 	{
 		friend relayserverinternal;
@@ -2065,7 +2062,7 @@ struct relayserver
 		clientimpl getimplementationvalue() const;
 		std::vector<std::shared_ptr<lacewing::relayserver::channel>> & getchannels();
 
-		void disconnect(int websocket_exit_code = 0);
+		void disconnect(std::shared_ptr<relayserver::client> cli = nullptr, int websocket_exit_code = 0);
 
 		void send(lw_ui8 subchannel, std::string_view data, lw_ui8 variant = 0);
 		void blast(lw_ui8 subchannel, std::string_view data, lw_ui8 variant = 0);