Pump node-gyp to 13.0.0 #505

Job	Run time
build-and-test / build (20.X, arm64, humble)	7m 36s
build-and-test / build (20.X, arm64, jazzy)	8m 17s
build-and-test / build (20.X, arm64, kilted)	8m 12s
build-and-test / build (20.X, arm64, lyrical)	8m 55s
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