ci: use larger wheel building runners (#14633)

This isn't ideal, but will help for now until we can address build
duration.

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Author: brettlangdon

.github/workflows/build_python_3.yml

@@ -32,12 +32,12 @@ jobs:
         run: |
           MATRIX_INCLUDE=$(
             {
-              cibuildwheel --print-build-identifiers --platform linux --archs x86_64,i686 | jq -cR '{only: ., os: "ubuntu-latest"}' \
-              && cibuildwheel --print-build-identifiers --platform linux --archs aarch64  | jq -cR '{only: ., os: "ubuntu-24.04-arm"}' \
+              cibuildwheel --print-build-identifiers --platform linux --archs x86_64,i686 | jq -cR '{only: ., os: "ubuntu-latest-16-cores"}' \
+              && cibuildwheel --print-build-identifiers --platform linux --archs aarch64  | jq -cR '{only: ., os: "arm-8core-linux"}' \
               && cibuildwheel --print-build-identifiers --platform windows --archs AMD64,x86 | jq -cR '{only: ., os: "windows-latest"}' \
               && cibuildwheel --print-build-identifiers --platform windows --archs ARM64    | jq -cR '{only: ., os: "windows-11-arm"}' \
-              && cibuildwheel --print-build-identifiers --platform macos --archs x86_64 | jq -cR '{only: ., os: "macos-13"}' \
-              && cibuildwheel --print-build-identifiers --platform macos --archs arm64 | jq -cR '{only: ., os: "macos-latest"}'
+              && cibuildwheel --print-build-identifiers --platform macos --archs x86_64 | jq -cR '{only: ., os: "macos-15-large"}' \
+              && cibuildwheel --print-build-identifiers --platform macos --archs arm64 | jq -cR '{only: ., os: "macos-15-xlarge"}'
             } | jq -sc
           )
           echo $MATRIX_INCLUDE